
Last night while celebrating a birthday with a group of friends, a dude asked one of my home-girls "are you gay?"...of course she replied with a very sassy "NO!", but it was clearly his first thought when he saw women in the strip club. Now he was also from out of town...so we took it that dudes in other states don't usually see chicks in strip clubs that heavily! I haven’t done a survey or anything to call that a fact; but he just appeared super shocked to say the least! And even though we went with some of our dude friends, he was just so surprised to see the club packed with as many women...not only us but many many many others were also in attendance!
I enjoyed my night but after pondering on the situation, I came up with some pros and cons of women customers in the strip clubs...I never saw it as something negative but the negatives became more apparent than the positives. That wasn’t a shock, but it made us look at things a little differently.
Pro’s
1.Women get to see first hand how to do pole tricks/moves that could be beneficial in their personal sex lives.
2. People may view you as a fun person, who enjoys doing spontaneous activities.
And I could only think of those---smh but the cons were flowing!!
Cons
1. Men will automatically think you’re either a lesbian, or bi-curious, or just FREAKY.
2. Men may view you as a wild chick.
3. Men may see you as someone who is thirsty and looking for a sugar daddy.
4.People may view you differently/negatively when they find out that you support a place that has an environment that is “sexist/disrespectful to women”.
Its a catch 22 ladies...I say do and go where you are pleased...just remember to do it in the classiest way possible.
xoxo, Sassy-Classy;-)