KISS MY ASS!!! I Discovered some NEW MUSIC! Muah

Without question listening to music is one of my fav past-times, and discovering a hot new artist is always a plus! Today while on twitter, which just happens to be one of the ultimate sites for promoting yourself; I saw a link to a song and I couldn’t resist checking it out…and after playing it just twice I was already singing along. I really liked what I was hearing and the hook did just that-->“hooked-me”. I can definitely see myself adding this track to my “break-up to make-up” playlist. The beat is spunky and the lyrics are also on point. They express everything you want to say when you’re beyond being over your significant other--> *Kiss My Ass*!!! Be sure to follow @loveMannequinn and support his hustle—you won’t be disappointed!

xoxo

S:P:R:I:N:G C:L:E:A:N:I:N:G

SPRING CLEANING!

Some sh!t and people just aren’t worth being around for another season! And as sad as it may seem at first----letting it go if it’s weighing you down won’t be so bad in the end. A good clean up can trigger a spark for all of the wonder things yet to come…

*Trash It*

~If your man ain’t sh!t but a headache and his bedroom skills aren’t even worth the hassle, trash him!


~If your job is a dead end, look for another one asap and trash that!


~ If some of your friends have proven to be foes lately, trash their ass too!


~If your house is a mess and cluttered from useless things, trash the unnecessary bs quick!


~If your closet has tons of heels that are no longer sexy and out dated clothing that’s not yet considered “vintage” but just plain ol’ wack, trash that sh!t too.

Believe me it’s easy to “trash the garbage” before Spring arrives, and it’s the best thing to do. I truly hope my tips have inspired some disposal thoughts just for you! ---Toodles

"Age Ain't Nothing But A Number"

Ladies when it comes down to dating, men don’t usually have an age requirement once a female is past 18. And these days most dudes really don’t care if a chick is under 18 to be honest. It’s nothing for a man to enjoy the best of both worlds with a clear conscience!! But over the years I’ve noticed that females don’t usually go for younger guys due to worries of being referred to as a “cougar”...BUT WHY??

 Having an older man is sooo common on the dating scene...But I think females, especially African American women--need to change their mind set up a bit and venture out more with both race and age. If a “young tender” finds you attractive, has his head on right, is doing things for himself, and fits all of your standards with the exception of his age, then you should see where it leads. Don’t just brush him off as soon as you find out he's younger. Who knows…you probably can teach him new tricks, mold him a little, keep your youthfulness, and truly enjoy the differences that he may just bring to the table.

 I think it’s perfectly fine to rob the cradle and do it with pride, just like men have done for decades. Just remember to make sure he is of legal age—lol, and let the good times roll;-)

Love and Relationships: Q&A: How do I fix it?...

Finally a question from E.Q. about love and how to fix a relationship when you're the one who caused trouble.

A: I think at some point all relationships will have their combination of ups and downs. But when this frequently occurs, then the relationship may not be healthy for both individuals and ultimately those who you share your dilemmas with as well. First ask yourself if the emotional roller-coaster is worth it, and if you say yes and truly believe that, then fight for it. If your answer is no then be wise and part ways on as much of a positive note as possible.

Tips to rekindle a relationship going down the slopes:

1. Give them more attention. Get off the internet, phone, facebook and twitter. When they are present they should have your full attention. But don’t be worrisome; find a good balance so no one ends up annoyed.

2. Gain their trust again by conversing and having more open discussions where blame and pettiness aren’t present. Prove your worthiness through direct dialect, open up, and share your feelings, apprehensions, and ideas for the future with your mate.

3. Keep them pleased in the bedroom with new ways of satisfying them—be adventurous and never be afraid to try something new.

4. Last but not least, be loyal, honest, and keep it real at all times. After all, loyalty is royalty.

With love, Classy-Rebel

Tip on his tip…

Tell a lie save a life! Ladies I’ve always known that the ego of a man can be blown with one simple line “I’ve seen bigger”. That’s if his ego is too big for his ego(get-it) and you want to put him in his place. Never hesitate to tell a man if his package is small; especially if he gets out of hand and you all are on the verge of breaking it off anyway; It will be the perfect farewell line to run on him---And if you’re trying to be a “good-girl”, always feed that ego and tell him that he’s the BIGGEST man in the world. Nothing is wrong with admitting facts or sugar-coating tales. Either way you hold more power than you know. So speak on it and use it.

xoxo Classy-Rebel

$lick Move$

Am I the only person who is noticing the trend of rappers creating more and more booty-shake/stripper-steelo songs?...Well, I think this new wave of music is a goldmine for the rappers behind the lyrics. Sex sells and stripping is a business that won’t be going out of style anytime soon.  Songs such as Gorilla Zoe’s “Up on the Pole”, Travis Porter’s “Make it Rain Bitch and Bring It Back”, Gucci Mane’s “Making Love to the Money”, and even Twista ft. Chris Brown “Make a Movie” are all songs that will be heard within the ambiance of stripping.  Those tracks are straight bangers and will definitely get major play along with many others of their kind in both clubs and without a doubt booty-clubs…$lick move.

 

xo, Sassy-Rebel

2011 Fashion Trends

2011 is all about the "vintage" rebel in us...Lets go back waaaayy back to the 1970's where anything in fashion goes! This wont be your stay at home moms looks cause you know anything done in the present will always be sexier and rebellious than what she grew up in. This seasons forecast also includes biker clothing and punk rock, so whether your boho chic or a rebel with a cause there's enough this year for everyone!

 The BoHo Rebel- 

• High wasited pants paired with a belt
• Roll neck sweaters tucked into pants or skirts paired with beaded necklaces 
• Vests- Fringe, Denim, Fur..anything goes 
• Hot pants bka Booty Shorts *rebel approved*
• Accessories- anything beaded, feathery, or with tassels.

The Classy Rebel-

• Bow blouses
• The "granny skirt"- usually long pleated with a high waist this can be sexed up with a sheer blouse(bras optional :-)
• The "peg-top skirt" - full at the waist with small darts or pleats, and tapering narrowly to the hem.
• Sheer and lacy materials paired up with any look will bring out the softer yet sexy side in you.
• Accessories: a wide, waist-cinching belt; a leather clutch in candy-store pastels; gloves; a classic headscarf.

The REBEL-

• Combat Boots can make any outfit look rebellious paired with skinny jeans or leather pants will make everyone you pass stand at attention. 
• Leather hot pants mini's or jackets with the right accessories who cares if you don't give a F*ck!
• Studs, saftey pins, metal, zippers all of these added to a simple garment will make you standout with a statement.

Although these trends will make you stand out there is no greater trend than your own. The best part about being a rebel is making your own rules so follow what makes you happy and tell the world to F*CK OFF if they don't like it. 

In fashion we trust

Fashion Rebel