Love and Relationships: Q&A: How do I fix it?...

Finally a question from E.Q. about love and how to fix a relationship when you're the one who caused trouble.

A: I think at some point all relationships will have their combination of ups and downs. But when this frequently occurs, then the relationship may not be healthy for both individuals and ultimately those who you share your dilemmas with as well. First ask yourself if the emotional roller-coaster is worth it, and if you say yes and truly believe that, then fight for it. If your answer is no then be wise and part ways on as much of a positive note as possible.

Tips to rekindle a relationship going down the slopes:

1. Give them more attention. Get off the internet, phone, facebook and twitter. When they are present they should have your full attention. But don’t be worrisome; find a good balance so no one ends up annoyed.

2. Gain their trust again by conversing and having more open discussions where blame and pettiness aren’t present. Prove your worthiness through direct dialect, open up, and share your feelings, apprehensions, and ideas for the future with your mate.

3. Keep them pleased in the bedroom with new ways of satisfying them—be adventurous and never be afraid to try something new.

4. Last but not least, be loyal, honest, and keep it real at all times. After all, loyalty is royalty.

With love, Classy-Rebel

Tip on his tip…

Tell a lie save a life! Ladies I’ve always known that the ego of a man can be blown with one simple line “I’ve seen bigger”. That’s if his ego is too big for his ego(get-it) and you want to put him in his place. Never hesitate to tell a man if his package is small; especially if he gets out of hand and you all are on the verge of breaking it off anyway; It will be the perfect farewell line to run on him---And if you’re trying to be a “good-girl”, always feed that ego and tell him that he’s the BIGGEST man in the world. Nothing is wrong with admitting facts or sugar-coating tales. Either way you hold more power than you know. So speak on it and use it.

xoxo Classy-Rebel

$lick Move$

Am I the only person who is noticing the trend of rappers creating more and more booty-shake/stripper-steelo songs?...Well, I think this new wave of music is a goldmine for the rappers behind the lyrics. Sex sells and stripping is a business that won’t be going out of style anytime soon.  Songs such as Gorilla Zoe’s “Up on the Pole”, Travis Porter’s “Make it Rain Bitch and Bring It Back”, Gucci Mane’s “Making Love to the Money”, and even Twista ft. Chris Brown “Make a Movie” are all songs that will be heard within the ambiance of stripping.  Those tracks are straight bangers and will definitely get major play along with many others of their kind in both clubs and without a doubt booty-clubs…$lick move.

 

xo, Sassy-Rebel